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Mark

paul — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 10:29:34 +0000

Mark had been struggling with his relationship for some time. He had a lovely partner and three children but there was a deep void in his life. He came to Trish to try and move forward with his life and to explore his inner turmoil, he cared for his family but he was unhappy with the life he had.
He had struggled for many years with his attraction to his own sex and had denied this to himself, it was slowly pulling him down and caused him confusion, and strong feelings of guilt.
Through coaching he identified his inner self and recognised and accepted his true self. He was gay and to be true to others he needed to be true to himself and live the life he truly wanted.
He soon became aware that his life needed to change. Acceptance of this gave him more confidence to make the changes which would enable himself and his partner to find happiness for the both of them.
He talked with his partner and they decided to part and support each other to find the lives they both could have now this change had taken place.
They are still both very good friends and very supportive and loving parents.
They both have found new love, Mark has now let his inner self shine through and feels proud to be gay and share his life with his new partner.
He now has new friends and a wonderful life. If this is something you can relate to and are experiencing. You too can make that change for a better life.

Story of Success!

paul — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 09:47:23 +0000

Nicola came to see Trish a month ago. She was unhappy, troubled and her life was in a rut.
Her relationship with her partner had become difficult. Communication between them had been slowly deteriorating over the last seven years.
Her family life was busy and they rarely spent time together. She wanted change but didn’t know how to resolve their difficulties with each other. Nicola thought the only way forward would have to be divorce. She was deeply upset by the thought of this but felt there was no other solution.
The fear she had was that to confront the situation would lead to this happening and she had been wrestling with this dilemma for some time.
With my help and guidance and taking time out for herself, she was able to explore more deeply what it was she wanted from her life. How she could make things change, and to feel empowered to have a happier life.
We met for six sessions and throughout this time with me the answers to her problems were discovered inside herself.
Nicola found the courage to make the change and spoke openly to her partner.
Just bringing all of this out into the open helped her feel empowered and she knew change could happen. The problems between them were much easier to resolve than she could possibly have imagined. She now no longer fears confrontation and it has taken their relationship to a new level.
They are still together and living a much happier life for their family and also for themselves.

Be Positive, Be Ready

paul — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 09:07:39 +0000

Be Excited, Make that Change……

How many times have you wanted to change things in your life but you have felt stuck by fear?
What if you knew that the fear will never go away as long as we continue to grow?
You are not alone, all of us have fears. Something new and challenging seems frightening, and takes us out of our comfort zone. It feels uncomfortable, at times painful. We can all move from a position of pain, feeling stuck, to a position of positivity, empowerment and fulfilment. We can guide you through your journey. If we can create our own pain we can also create our own joy.
You have come to our website for a reason, you have taken the first step towards changing your life and towards happier times.
Taking the risks and stretching yourself will help you push through fear to a place that up until today you could only dream about.
We will guide you, empower you, and help you find your own wonderful journey to this new place.
At this intitial stage on Trish’s personal journey she searched for information to understand why she had so many fears in life, how she could overcome them and grow:
“The very first book that I read as I began my discoveries was called ‘ Feel the fear and do it anyway’ by Susan Jeffers. It became my bible. It is a book I think is well worth reading as it helps have a better understanding of fear, taking risks, and encourages self exploration.
This book will encourage you to free yourself from fears and help you with the first stepping stone to making that change in your life. No one else in our lives can make that change, it has to start with us taking responsibility for our own personal happiness and fulfilment.”
You are not alone, fear prevents us from even making that first step. You are different, you can handle anything that life brings. It is all empowering, exciting and positive and it’s here waiting for you to make that contact for a new life. Make that change.